Now,notice the answers and how they are phrased versus the way the question was asked,In the question I asked for what you personally expe rience.But the people answering my question have shifted the response a way from being about themselves (thus,abdicating responsibility for the ir feelings) by choosing to use the pronoun "you" in place of "I." This shift of focus conveys a sense of shifting responsibility because it ind icates a refusal to accept what they are experiencing.In this situation,the respondents are essentially suggesting that they are speaking for me and what I experience in these situations rather than speaking for th emselves.